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Do you long for it?
That sense of accomplishment, the feeling you get when you’ve had a perfect day and there’s nothing else needed to be done?
Of course, you do. You want it so much that you begin learning how to do everything faster. You study time management, get a lot of things done, push yourself to the limit, fall into bed exhausted and get up early to do it all again.
Go ahead, give yourself some credit. You’re doing everything right, your output is tremendous, except for one little thing.
I’m not talking about just any result, but the specific result you wanted. You feel like everything you’re doing is falling apart.
Your family is important to you and so is your work. You want to find fulfillment in both.
You live your life between conflicts, a war of indecision waging inside your mind and even though you decided to attend to one, another part of you still remain unfulfilled.
Worst of all? You’re not getting results. What you set out to do is blocked by what other people want you to do for them.
And even though people praise you, way down inside, you’re not happy. Your heart feels empty.
For every one thing you get done, you can think of ten things undone and that make you feel guilty in a real sense. You just aren’t enjoying life.
If this is happening to you, you’re not alone.
The ugly truth is you’re trapped between the good and the best.
Most of the time, too many good things get in our way that we end up ignoring what is best for us.
Can I be blunt for a moment? What are the things that you think are best for you? Go ahead, write them down. Have you finished? Good! Now ask yourself, how many of these things have you achieved?
If your answer is all of them, you might as well close this post, it’s simply not for you, go do other things instead. (Watch a movie)
Not all, you say? Great, we can do business and it starts now.
The next question to ask yourself is what keeps you from giving those things that are best for you the time and the energy you want to give them?
Perhaps you’ve always been trapped and controlled by people and situations; that has to change now. If you want to develop the sense of fulfillment in your day to day life, below are the key things you must do to take control of your life. Ready?
According to the title of a popular motivational magazine manual, there are no UN-achievers, but please don’t mention that to the people who are already failing at their dream. He or she might be apt to bust your beak for you.
And no matter how much I encourage people to take their dream seriously, I can’t lie and say there are no UN-achievers.
Sorry, but there are a lot of people who will end up not achieving their dream. Sometimes men and women never take their dream seriously. Some have doodled their time away at home waiting for the right time to achieve their dream, and others are stuck in a job or career trying to fit in.
The truth is, few people know what they want; most people n
ever realize if their dream is born within them or borrowed from another. I’ve spoken to many individuals who admit that their current pursuit is something their parents or a close relationship desires for them. Most people never find dedicated time to pursue their inner passion.
I am approaching the heart of this post with two of these passions; both are simple. The first is to help you realize that passion is the best answer to the distress. The best place to build your well of blessings is the place you’re hurting the most. The second is if you don’t like your present situation you can change your approach and follow through with your passion for becoming an achiever.
Distractions. Have they ever happened to you?
There you are happily working on a task, or listening to something important, or reading, when suddenly you lose your train of thought. Before you know it, distractions have taken over and you’ve totally lost sight of everything you intended to do.
No matter how hard you try, you just can’t get yourself to tune out the world of distractions and continue onward with your task.
Distractions are nothing more than an agent designed to steal your valuable time. The world is filled with people that abandoned a greater task destined to make them ‘great in life’ because of their inability to focus and get the job done.
I bet you know what I mean.
Have you ever abandoned some task because you were easily distracted, either by some noise or sound, or other thoughts creeping into your mind and you ended up saying something like “I don’t think this is the right time to do this” or “I will do it when it feels right.”
The question is when is the right time? Moreover, you won’t find the right time to get this thing done. Ever!
Are you experiencing distractions? I bet you are, but the real question is are you ready to get yourself ‘unstuck.’
Before we begin, let’s talk about the mistake people make when they’re being distracted.
The most common mistake
For most people, negative emotions feel like a scary monster under the bed. You try to ignore the monster by hiding your face under the covers, but the more you try to avoid it, the larger and scarier the monster becomes and your imagination keeps churning out an awful image as you desperately try to pretend he’s not lurking in the shadows.
You’d love to confront the monster, but it’s just too scary. That’s the way most people feel about negative thoughts. They want to slay the monster and make it never come back to them, but they feel terrified, hopeless, and outclassed.
You have read self-promising guides that teach you exactly how to kill this scary monster, but after applying every tidbit that the guide teaches you, it feels like it’s working and then soon after, here’s the monster looming about again and showing his personality, whenever you’re in a negative mood.
You know things can’t keep going on this way, one way or another something has to change. Relax. It’s all going to be okay. What you need is a super clear, easy to read guide, that will help you learn how to use your mind to remain calm and stay positive whenever you’re angry or in a negative mood.
Here are 4 ways to eliminate those negative emotions:
You want to have ‘the good life’.
To do the things that matter.
And to make that change you want to see in the world.
These are your dreams.
But maybe you are stuck in a job or a career where you only follow the rules, become what other people want you to be, and end up living the life of others.
Chances are you have pictured where you will want to be in the future. And your creative subconscious mind has come up with a road-map to help you reach your goals.
In fact, it feels like Mother Nature herself is talking to you and telling you the things which are bound to be.
Except for one little thing; you just can’t make yourself take action.
Why? Because you are afraid of the risk that lies ahead, afraid of taking the wrong step.
Why Most People Never Fulfill Their Calling In Life
Churchill wrote, “Courage is considered the foremost of the virtues, for upon it, all others depend on.”
Let me be blunt.
You have many goals and unlimited potential that you want to fulfill. You naturally want to be happy during your lifetime and do the things that bring you success.
The challenge is that the more potential you have, the more obstacles you’re likely to face and the more problems you’ll have to solve.
And if you ever want a chance in hell of sailing to the promised land and achieve all your goals, you need something more than good luck to power through your life’s journey. And that is courage!
But here is the painful truth – most people are afraid of many things, not that fear is a bad thing, in fact, often we need fear to get through life, prevent injury, and guard against financial mistakes.
You might ask, what’s the difference between a person who has courage and a coward?
Has this ever happened to you?
You’ve got a perfect idea; one that could transform the way people do things and change your life forever!
You immediately scribble it down, start doing everything necessary to turn it into a valuable product and get it out to the world.
But in the middle of working on your stunning idea, you start facing some crucial problems; life starts getting in the way, and soon you decide to stop trying and quit.
You quit because you think your idea wasn’t as groundbreaking as you first thought or maybe you won’t be able to gain an edge on your competitors or the thoughts are just an illusion, and nothing is real.
Sure, it’s possible, but there’s another reason why your idea doesn’t become successful.
You just weren’t persistent enough.
Why Most People Fail In Life
Stop feeling sorry for yourself and in case you’ve never been told, “sorry is a weak word.” You might even think your problem is unique and no one will ever know how you feel on the inside, but you know what?
Most of the time, people are all struggling with some basic problem and you’re not alone. You’re not the only one struggling from depressing moods and remain unhappy. You’re not the only one who receives bullying at school or suffering from a poor family relationship.
Moreover, you’re not the only one suffering from depression and low self-esteem. Almost everyone faces crucial problems such as deep pain, sadness, and self-doubt. Nevertheless, the feeling of not finding the motivation to do anything and the feeling of being in the darkest days of your life is insidious.
It gnaws at your social life, eating, studying, confidence, and, in other words, practically everything. It even causes talented people to give up and feel that the whole world has turned its back on them. And that’s why that needs to stop now.
Let’s face it.
We, people, are simple souls with big dreams. We want to achieve our goals, do what we love, become successful and live a happy life. We want freedom and value, to help people to change from the inside out and for them to achieve their dreams.
It’s our heart’s desire, a dream that deserves to come true. But still, a part of you might be wondering.
Will it ever come true? Will everything ever go as planned?
As a kid, I often set my plans for how I was going to go through life, the things I want to achieve and how to achieve them.
But soon enough, life starts to get in the way, with so many decisions to be made and never ever having a clear view of what lies ahead.
Chances are, you may have experienced something similar, and if not, rest assured that nature has her way of dealing with everyone.
You see, this is the real world and in the real world, things don’t always go as planned. But some people are just not prepared enough to take responsibility whenever things go wrong.
It’s fun to dream about your business taking off and changing your life.
But here’s the deal.
Life is nothing more than a daring adventure and if you are very familiar with adventure movies, you’ll know that It takes the hero a lot of stepping stones before achieving his dream.
The good news is, this post will teach you exactly how to achieve your dream.
If you really want to be successful and happy in life, there are three keys you need to unlock every obstacle you face and pave your way to success.
Ready to learn what they are? Let’s dive in.
You want to live creatively, do the things you’re passionate about and get established in them.
But somewhere along the road, things go wrong.
Life gets busy and even while you try to muster up enough energy to get through those busy exhausting days, it doesn’t feel like it’s working.
Knowing this, you try to figure out what’s slowing you down, you do some research, set new goals, fill your daily planner and soon, you’re back to the first step trying to walk through every process again.
If this is happening to you, You’re not alone!